1. They listen more than they talk
  2. They put all their stuff away when speaking to you and give you their full attention
    Ex. Cell Phones, computers, files, etc. 
  3. They shine the spotlight on others
    Ex: If you walk into a party instead of saying, “I am here” they say, “Oh, there you are.” 
  4. They choose the words they use
    The speak only positively and uplifting.